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Britain’s over‑50s are having a romantic revival - and they’re not shy about it.

According to research of 1,000 adults aged 50+, passion in later life is booming, confidence is sky‑high… but there’s one thing threatening the nation’s love lives:

The staircase.

Yep - it turns out the biggest bedroom buzzkill isn’t a lack of spark… it’s the struggle to actually get upstairs.

The study, commissioned by Uplifts, reveals a nation of silver‑haired sweethearts who are more confident than ever:

  • 78 per cent say romance is vital to their emotional wellbeing

  • 74 per cent feel freer and more expressive with age

  • 82 per cent understand their romantic desires better now than when they were younger

  • 34 per cent say keeping romance alive after 50 is no challenge

  • And 16 per cent value romance more now than they did in their youth

If anything, the over‑50s are leading the country in passion - and they’ve even got their icons to prove it.

When asked who inspires their love lives, Brits voted for Richard Gere, Bridget Jones and the wonderfully outrageous Dorien Green - proof that confidence, charm and a little cheekiness never go out of style.

But while hearts are willing, knees are… less cooperative.

For many, the prized spots for romance - the bedroom, the bathroom, that upstairs hideaway - are getting harder to reach. And nothing kills a Valentine’s vibe like realising the climb to the top floor feels more like a mountaineering expedition.

Sam Stannah, CEO of Uplifts, which commissioned the research said:

“People over 50 clearly haven’t lost their spark - far from it. They just want to enjoy all parts of their home without needing a pep talk before tackling the stairs.”

The findings highlight a growing truth: Britain’s homes aren’t keeping up with Britain’s love lives. As more couples want to stay put in the homes they adore, accessibility - especially to upstairs spaces - is becoming a surprisingly big factor in keeping romance alive.

So this Valentine’s Day, the over‑50s are saying: “Give us the spark… and the ability to reach the bedroom to enjoy it.”

Because a happy love life starts with one simple thing: Getting upstairs without it becoming the main event.

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